When we have children, our lives change entirely. Regardless of what we do, our kids a priority, so when they are of an age where they are ready to leave for college, it can be very hard. Your babies no longer need you to the same degree as they once did and are ready and eager to map out a future and live life to the full. As difficult as it is, all we can do is encourage them and hope that they will use the skills you have taught them over the years to make responsible choices.
You may find the idea of them leaving very difficult, particularly at first, but there are some things you can do to make it a bit easier. Here are 3 tips to help you cope with your child leaving for college.
Take the stress out of finding the right college
Finding the right college can be a very stressful and worrying time, not only for your child but for you. Figuring out which is best suited to their needs can be a bit of a minefield, not to mention very time-consuming.
If it’s something that you are all struggling with or you don’t know which way to turn, employing the services of a College Admissions Consultant could help immensely. Not only can they help find a college that is the ideal match for your child’s abilities and future career goals, but they can also help with applications, mock testing, and tuition. Once you know which college your child will be attending, you will probably feel a lot less stressed and far more relaxed about it all.
Where will they stay?
Once you know where your kids will be staying and are satisfied that it’s safe and secure, it will be a weight off your mind so go with them to visit. If they are staying in shared accommodation, it is also the perfect opportunity to meet those they will be sharing with. Once you have a clear idea in your mind of where they are sleeping, eating, and who they are hanging out with, your mind can stop wandering.
Agree to visit them regularly but don’t overstay your welcome or expect this to happen too often. As difficult as it is, you need to realize that they will most probably enjoy being away.
Stay in touch
It’s a good idea to agree with your kids how often you will talk to them either on the phone or via video messaging. It allows plans to be centered around that, and knowing when you will next be able to talk to them will make it easier for you too. Around once a week is probably the most common frequency, but you can discuss and agree on what suits you both.
Another great way to stay in touch is via social media. They may, of course, not want you to see everything they have been doing but if they are happy with you following them on the likes of Instagram or Facebook, then go ahead. Seeing how much fun they are having and the things are experiencing will make missing them worthwhile.
